How many stories have you heard of people who are confronted with the reality of HIV when their ‘committed’ partners confess that they’ve cheated? How many times do you find that friends share stories of guys who ‘don’t feel comfortable…
Love is a universal feeling and is supposed to be expressed and given freely without any oppression or the fear of being judged because of your skin clolour, gender and sexual orientation. However, it is still difficult when you are…
Okay, let me explain: I was somewhere in the bundus of Magaliesburg at a gay-organised hike. Being the gay male rendition of Bridget Jones, I managed to drop my water bottle and sunscreen in the dust on disembarking my vehicle.…
Sexy people come in all shapes and sizes. As they say, everyone is someone’s some kind of wonderful. But there are some of us out there that have a universal sex appeal. I’m not talking about big muscles, a bubble…
HIV-positive men on ART with undetectable viral loads, can’t pass it on to their negative partners – it’s been proven. Eight years ago, 1000 gay couples were recruited for a revolutionary sexual health research project. The couples had to be…
Here's a list of things that you definitely should consult a doctor or clinician about sooner rather than later: You’ve had unprotected sex, or the condom broke during sex, and you’re worried that you may have been at risk of HIV. …
November 2017, was the year I decide to visit the Health4Men clinic in Greenpoint, Cape Town to get on PrEP and this was by far the best decision I could make for myself. I got my first month of pills…
MSM stands for ‘men who have sex with men’, and it doesn’t mean the same thing as ‘gay’. Many people assume that men who have sex with men (MSM) are all gay men, but this isn’t true. It’s a…
During the thirteen years, I was an actor, I played roles representing various gender identities, races and sexual orientations. I prided myself on being a versatile actor, one that aspired to be able to step into the "skin" of different…
I’ve dated guys who aren’t afraid of holding my hand in malls and even kissing me in public if the mood calls for it. Nothing is more striking in these moments than the stares, whispers and giggles that I have…